一生不可自決

By 陳百強

我沒有自命灑脱
悲與喜無從識別
得與失重重疊疊
因此傷心亦覺不必
誰個又會並沒 欠缺
曾心愛的為何分別
和不愛的年年月月
一生不可自決
誰人又知道我的心靈熾熱
誰人又知道再説已不必
仍然願一生一世的欠缺
不想再暴露我於他人前
你會令誰人自覺生可戀
即使天天也在變
About This Song

"" ("A Life Beyond Self-Determination") is a poignant ballad by the renowned Hong Kong artist (Danny Chan). The song captures the essence of emotional struggle and introspection concerning love, loss, and the intricacies of human relationships. It encapsulates a sense of resignation towards the uncontrollable nature of life, reflecting on how the joys and sorrows intertwine in a way that leaves the singer questioning his agency in directing his own emotional destiny.

The narrative of the song unfolds through a contemplative lens in which the protagonist grapples with the powerlessness felt when faced with longing and separation. The lyrics touch upon the internal conflict of recognizing one's deep-seated feelings, while simultaneously feeling that expressing or acting upon them may be futile. This deep emotional rift highlights the tension between desire and restraint, illustrating a complex landscape of human emotions where love, grief, and disillusionment coexist.

Musically, the song employs a delicate arrangement that complements its reflective lyrics. The melody is gentle yet haunting, allowing for an introspective atmosphere that enhances the emotional weight of the song. Lyrically, Chen combines vivid imagery with relatable themes, employing techniques such as repetition and contrast to amplify the feelings of helplessness and yearning. Through this aesthetic, listeners can feel the nuances of vulnerability and hope embedded within the verses, drawing them even closer to the essence of the message.

Culturally, "" resonates deeply within the fabric of Chinese music, as it reflects broader themes of fate and emotional endurance that are prevalent in many traditional narratives. The song speaks to the universal human experience, transcending cultural boundaries by exploring the age-old struggle between personal desire and societal expectations. Danny Chan's heartfelt delivery and the song's reflective lyrics have cemented its place as a classic in the realm of Cantonese pop music, continuing to resonate with audiences across generations.