愛的習慣

By 側田

叫我怎假設從來沒有
你這對象 即使可當你是朋友
同樣有一樣下場
當跟你錯到半路上
可改變過去當沒有福遇上
都想見識有多傷
叫我怎假設從來沒有
笑得燦爛 即使興奮惹來難過
難道我真可以揀
當猜到過去快腐爛
竟可理智到戒掉愛的習慣
不必愛比愛簡單
如早知滿足我的令我哭的都是你
仍不會為了避免分手所以堅拒一起
戀愛沒早知也懶知以後和誰談天説地
為着不敢不愛 我仍勇於浪費心機
從開始你的背影沒有迫我親近你
離開也沒法後悔忽略別人但選擇你
這要是劫數也決不退避
真敬佩自己
期望得到一個人不管失去運氣
叫我怎假設從來共你各走各路
今生失去那段時間
能換那一種美好
雖好到世界也羨慕
竟推算到快樂至肯共舞
得好報便相好
誰可做到
如早知滿足我的令我哭的都是你
仍不會為了避免分手所以堅拒一起
戀愛沒早知也懶知以後和誰談天説地
為着不敢不愛 我仍勇於浪費心機
從開始你的背影沒有迫我親近你
離開也沒法後悔忽略別人但選擇你
這要是劫數也決不退避
真敬佩自己
其實喜歡一個人不開心也合理
不必需要動機 捨得憎我也歡喜
About This Song

The song "" by (Kevin Cheng) delves into the complex emotions associated with love, focusing on the habitual nature of romantic relationships and the duality of joy and pain. The main theme revolves around the struggle of coming to terms with the memories and feelings tied to a past love. The lyrics express a longing for understanding and the desire to let go, while simultaneously acknowledging that the emotional habits formed from love linger on, even amid heartache. This dichotomy taps into the universal human experience of love, making it relatable to many listeners.

The narrative of the song highlights the internal conflict faced by the protagonist, who grapples with the idea of moving on while reminiscing about the beauty of their experiences, regardless of the pain. Phrases like "" (smiling brightly) contrast with the underlying sorrow represented by moments of regret and missed opportunities, painting a vivid picture of the bittersweet nature of love. The singer candidly explores feelings of vulnerability and the fear of letting go, ultimately embedding a message of resilience and acceptance within the emotional turmoil.

Musically, the song features melodic lines that both uplift and evoke nostalgia, using poignant chord progressions that enhance the lyrical impact. The lyrics employ various techniques, including vivid imagery and metaphoric expressions, which invite the listener to introspect on their own romantic journeys. There is a reflective quality in the way the song is structured, allowing each verse to build upon the emotions laid out previously, culminating in a profound understanding that love's habits are as much about joy as they are about pain. The repetition of certain phrases emphasizes the cyclical nature of these feelings, resonating with the listener.

Culturally, "" speaks to the broader theme of love and relationships within Chinese society, where personal and romantic expectations can often be deeply intertwined with social norms. The lyrics resonate with those who have experienced unrequited love or heartbreak, making it a significant piece in the contemporary Mandopop landscape. The song taps into the nostalgic and reflective aspects of love, illustrating how romantic habits influence individuals long after relationships have ended, ultimately offering solace to those who continue to navigate their emotions in the aftermath of love.