我懂了

By 吳若希

為何人 沒法專一戀愛 講出承諾虛假
原來人 用最真心戀上 才真心的撇下
是覺得內疚嗎 就連道歉中聲音都沙啞
自信心在溶化 制止眼淚流下
為何人 定要一失戀了 傷心無奈痛罵
原來人 望鏡子都討厭 才痛恨對方吧
若我真心愛你 任何事磨折統統可招架
我痛苦着微笑 太出你意料嗎
我懂的 你此刻是挑選了她
做副選都不需害怕
明年自有一位取締她
我懂的 下意識你依戀我嗎
離別會多一些牽掛
孩童玩夠都想築個家
最慘的可過度嗎 最好的將會到吧
為何人 定要諸多比較 貪新忘舊對吧
無言時 就怪天天相見 才厭倦再講話
在這天失去你 十年後重見多麼的驚詫
沒我這段時間 你得到快樂嗎
我懂的 你此刻是挑選了她
做副選都不需害怕
明年自有一位取締她
我懂的 下意識你依戀我嗎
離別會多一些牽掛
孩童玩夠都想築個家
最慘的可過度嗎 最好的將會到吧
我懂的 我已經再不憎厭她
甚至會祝福她造化
橫豎你終須失去她
你懂的 下個他絕不比你差
然後你心會似亂麻
才明白你損失多重嗎
最慘的都會淡化 最傷的都會放下
About This Song

The song "" ("I Understand") by (Gigi Leung) delves deep into the complex emotions surrounding love, heartache, and acceptance. The main theme of the song revolves around the struggles of unrequited love and the intricate dance of letting go while understanding that each person must navigate their own emotional journey. The songs emotional core lies in its poignant reflections on heartbreak and the inevitable change that relationships undergo. Gigi's expressive vocals enhance the song's delicate ambiance, capturing the bittersweet essence of moving on.

Lyrically, the song tells the narrative of a love gone awry, where the protagonist grapples with feelings of jealousy, longing, and eventual acceptance. Through various vignettes, the lyrics convey the pain of seeing an ex-partner choose someone else, yet embracing the idea that this is a natural part of life's ebb and flow. The repeated acknowledgment of understanding their choices indicates a journey towards self-awareness, as the protagonist learns to reconcile their tumultuous emotions with grace and dignity.

Musically, "" employs a blend of soft melodies and heartfelt instrumentals that create a reflective atmosphere. The use of introspective lyrical techniques, such as metaphors and rhetorical questions, deepens the song's emotional impact. The contrast between the verses, which are filled with doubt and insecurity, and the chorus that betrays a sense of peace illustrates a significant emotional transition, highlighting the overlap between pain and acceptance.

Culturally, the song resonates in a society where discussions around love and relationships often remain shallow and simplistic. By presenting a more profound emotional exploration of love's complexities, contributes to a broader understanding of heartbreak and healing in contemporary Chinese music. The themes of cherishing memories while embracing change strike a chord with listeners, inviting them to reflect on their personal experiences with love and loss.