先苦後甜

By 方力申

你拋不開 手裏的工作
亦追跟趕 到校舍趕接放學
在幼年時給我 雪糕天天買一個
夜深一點 教導我功課
待天一光 又來催我上學堂
你在昨天 辛苦太過
所有父母 也盼子女成材
就算他 獎與罰也總帶着愛
世上哪個 如父母親愛
我會漸成大器
(今天我願生性)
使雙親最喜悦是要爭氣
不忍使你失望盡我全力
奔波一世的你
艱辛的困境扶育我
羽翼漸盛現巳高飛
講不出那感謝便唱給你
輕撫你皺紋段段舊事再憶記
當我自小拖緊你
舉首凝視 似是大樹護蔭的你
彈指之間 歲月巳飄去
父子之間 總也有歡笑眼淚
在血緣能找到 萬般的親抹不去
漫畫書本 不要我偷看
學多一點 未來少一些出錯
你在昨天 叮囑過我
往日難為是你日夕掛心
如今將最好都送贈你
從前頑童成熟了 求你別皺眉
盼未來能讓我 努力報答你
About This Song

The song "" ("Bitter Before Sweet") by (Fang Lishen) encapsulates the profound emotional journey between a parent and child as they navigate the various complexities of life together. At its core, this poignant ballad celebrates the unwavering love and sacrifices made by parents in their quest to nurture and support their children. The lyrics reflect a deep gratitude for the struggles endured by the parent, portraying the duality of hardship and sweetness in the relationship that shapes the child's growth and maturity.

The narrative unfolds with vivid imagery of a parent juggling work and the responsibilities of raising a child, highlighting the sacrifices made to provide educational opportunities. The song conveys a powerful message about appreciating parental love, emphasizing that any form of discipline or correction stems from a place of care and concern. As the child matures, the reflections on childhood experiences depict a desire to honor those sacrifices and strive for excellence, showcasing the parent's ultimate hope that their efforts yield a successful future for their offspring.

Musically, the song blends emotive melodies with heartfelt lyrics, creating a stirring atmosphere that resonates with listeners. The use of metaphor and detailed storytelling in the lyrics enhances the relatability of the parental bond, while the songs orchestration often incorporates soft, uplifting elements that evoke feelings of nostalgia and warmth. Notably, the chorus serves as a cathartic release, inviting listeners to embrace both the struggles and triumphs that define familial relationships.

Culturally, "" underscores the universal values of filial piety and the importance of honoring one's parents, common themes in many East Asian societies. It reminds audiences of the sacrifices that are often taken for granted and the mutual respect that should prevail in parent-child dynamics. By reflecting on the bittersweet journey of upbringing and gratitude, the song resonates deeply in a context where family values remain paramount.