白頭到老

By 蔡卓妍

我們也許老十歲 肥了也鈍了
我們也許老廿歲 頭髮雪白了
戴着老花烏蠅鏡 別人在笑
傻傻外表 要笑隨便笑
我們也許老十歲 脾氣會暴躁
我們也許記憶體 比不上那電腦
往後缺點一匹布 未能盡訴
閒來互數 鬥氣的兩老
難以像十四歲地大勇
冤家般相處你罵我罵你蠢
肥胖多一寸 你別嫌我重
都不需鞭撻你未夠上進
難以像十八歲地自信
今生於家裏你做我平安鍾
爭執後對你總會服從 信不信
我們也許再十歲 長氣過巨肺
我們也許再廿歲 回去見上帝
有日記憶都衰退 剩餘默契
眉頭路軌 印證這半世
我怕你老了血壓比我高
你想吃西餅 我又會御準
只盼望你我好好一起到老 活在鬥氣中
見證你這個百歲的老翁
養好你身體 跟我追求一點衝動
年華老去 仍然愛發夢
難以像十四歲地大勇
穿梭機先進到共你沒法懂
留在公園裏散步隨處碰
當枴杖的你會為我護送
難以像十八歲地自信
孫女一出世註定你做公公
當生命去到真正動容 你會懂
只希望有你一個認同 我相信
About This Song

The song "" (Growing Old Together) by (Charlene Choi) explores the profound yet light-hearted journey of aging and the enduring love shared between partners as they grow older. The main theme revolves around the inevitability of aging, depicted through lyrical musings about physical changes, emotional growth, and the passage of time in a relationship. The emotional core is anchored in the acceptance of the imperfections that come with age and the joy found in the companionship that persists through these changes, emphasizing a deep bond that only strengthens with time.

The narrative unfolds with a reflection on how both partners may change, growing not only older but also more robust in their connection despite the trivial squabbles and frustrations that tend to arise in long-term relationships. There is an interplay between humor and vulnerability as the lyrics candidly address issues like deteriorating memory and physical appearance, yet maintain a tone of optimism and affection. The underlying story presents a realistic, yet endearing portrait of love that sees beauty in the burdens of aging, illustrating how mutual understanding can triumph over life's challenges.

From a musical perspective, the song utilizes a melodic structure that complements its heartfelt lyrics. The catchy tune and gentle instrumentation create a warm and inviting atmosphere, while poignant lyrical techniques, such as vivid imagery and conversational language, allow listeners to relate personally to the singer's reflections. The playful yet sincere tone invites listeners to share in the nostalgia and future aspirations of a couple growing old together, resonating with anyone who has experienced love and companionship.

Culturally, "" taps into the Asian societal values of family and lifelong commitment, highlighting the importance of enduring partnerships as a symbol of stability and continuity. In a fast-paced world where connections often fracture, this song champions the beauty of staying together through the ups and downs of life, encouraging a mindset that treasures long-lasting bonds. It is a heartfelt reminder that true love remains resilient, regardless of age, and serves as an anthem for couples navigating the journey of life hand in hand.