極愛自己

By 陳冠希

一起應該多一百倍心跳
不一起該有十次眼眉跳
得一分鐘應該想你一秒
但我不喜歡每一刻都對錶
雙手應該分一半抱緊你
相識應比各自快活神奇
相處應不遺餘力花心機
然而原諒我 仍然極愛自己
讓我全心喜歡你
留下眼 留下耳 陪着自己不給你
讓我留低一口氣
欠你的一半情 沒有年期
來分開送贈你 逐天給你
來分開送給你
About This Song

The song "" ("Love Myself to the Extreme") by (Edison Chen) explores the intricate balance between self-love and romantic affection. It addresses the internal conflict one faces when trying to harmonize personal desires with the expectations and emotional investments of a relationship. The emotional core of the song resonates with individuals who find themselves at a crossroads, torn between the quest for true love and the necessity of nourishing one's own self-worth. The singer poignantly expresses that while he deeply cares for someone, there remains an unwavering priority towards loving oneself, reflecting the modern dilemma of self-care amidst romantic entanglements.

The narrative unfolds through a series of contemplative reflections on companionship and individuality. Chen evokes imagery of shared moments"a hundred beats of the heart" when together, yet juxtaposes it against feelings of solitude and personal reflection when apart. He conveys a bittersweet message of dedication, implying that every second of affection toward another is tempered by a conscious effort to remain true to oneself. Ultimately, the message resonates with the idea that while love for another is powerful, it should not eclipse the need for self-love, balancing the dynamics of relationship with personal identity.

Musically, the song employs a smooth blend of contemporary urban beats, paired with melodic lines that enhance the reflective lyrics. Chen utilizes lyrical techniques such as repetitive motifs, which emphasize the tension between longing and self-preservation. The phrases like "" ("Let me wholeheartedly like you") create a compelling contrast with the surrendering tone of self-love expressed further in the lyrics. The instrumentation complements the introspective nature of the song, with a soothing arrangement that enhances its emotional weight.

Culturally, "" taps into the growing emphasis on mental health and the importance of self-acceptance in modern society, especially among younger generations in Asia. It reflects a shift in social norms where self-care is increasingly valued, and emotional transparency is encouraged. The song speaks to a universal audience, bridging cultural gaps and resonating with anyone navigating the complexities of love and self-appreciation in today's fast-paced world.