寂寞便找我

By 陳潔儀

想跟你看的煙花 一早滿天飛
想跟你看的櫻花 一早已枯死
難怪説見多一天愛多一天
不捨不棄 最多騙 你自己
想起了你的聲音 但是忘了你
想寵愛你的花草 多於想愛你
唯有靠這麼知彼這種知己
方可相信 我可以 愛自己
寂寞便找我
但是令你笑的不是我
是你不清楚 儘管相愛過
內心真正愛什麼
寂寞便找我
但願令你苦的不是我
為你點的火 互相需要過
別管心裏愛什麼 誰管誰做錯
一想到你的煙圈 呼吸滿天飛
一想到你的雙手 怎麼抱不起
曾對你滿心歡喜 有多歡喜
只因跟你 愛生醉 怕夢死
想起了你的香薰 但是忘了你
想觀看你的家居 多於想看你
難怪我有心一起 卻不一起
彼此相愛 也許更 愛自己
About This Song

The song "" ("When Loneliness Calls Me") by (Sharon Chan) explores the complexities of love and loneliness, intricately weaving personal reflection with emotional vulnerability. At its core, the song reflects a deep yearning for connection, yet grapples with the acknowledgment that past relationships often leave one grappling with solitude. The lyrics express a sense of nostalgia, reminiscing about shared moments while confronting the feelings of separation that have arisen over time. This duality creates a poignant emotional landscape, allowing listeners to resonate with the bittersweet nature of love and loss.

The narrative encapsulated in the song revolves around the realization of how love can transform into a conflicting relationship with oneself. The protagonist's journey reflects a struggle between wanting to rekindle affection for an ex-partner and recognizing the importance of self-love. Through lines that lament missed connections" " (wanting to watch fireworks with you)the lyrics convey a sense of hopeless romance tied to memories that are both cherished and painful. The repeated refrain, "" (when loneliness calls me), showcases the underlying theme of loneliness, inviting the listener to confront their own experiences with isolation and longing.

Musically, the song integrates gentle melodies with soft instrumentation, enhancing the reflective nature of the lyrics. The lyrical technique used in juxtaposing vivid imagerysuch as "" (fireworks) and "" (cherry blossoms)evokes a romantic yet fleeting aesthetic, contrasting the beauty of love with the inevitability of its fade. Furthermore, the song employs a conversational tone that invites intimacy, creating a space where the listener feels personally involved in the artist's emotional expression.

Culturally, "" resonates deeply within the context of contemporary discussions around love and emotional well-being in Chinese society. The song's exploration of self-acceptance and the importance of recognizing one's emotions reflects a progressive attitude towards mental health, encouraging listeners to embrace their feelings instead of suppressing them. Thus, the song serves not only as an artistic expression but as a relatable anthem for anyone navigating the complexities of love and loneliness.