自愛

By 孫耀威

一開手機怨氣話已驟來
來提我給你一切的傷害
一關手機這秒已經不在
無人接聽不可叫結局更改
很多種戀愛我亦愛不來
明瞭到斬痛需要些忍耐
很多種戀愛只長出青苔
未累到枯死應要儘快鬆開
為了牽強得到我
你眼睛已紅了那麼多
但你面容喜怒
崩潰得雙方都知不妥
説愛都有點錯
你愛我就不要再問 不需要強忍
不需要再為我去擔心
説愛我就不會是恨 不管那責任
太多猜想猜想到晚上更抖震
怕痛就不要再問 不哭最勇敢
糾纏才會傷身
分開了但始終都掛心
來日我聽到問到你的新聞
都會吸引
開一屋燈四野沒有別人
從前你給我的愛已封塵
熄一屋燈我已沒身邊人
誰明我一位都有半份開心
許多知己也會話我好人
而和你只會一輩子不幸
許多相戀也靠內心親近
為何我花光一切剩了惻隱
用窘迫去鎖緊我 你怎麼會沒愛也不可
在你漫長生命 不應該只懂得喜歡我
愛到方法出錯
你愛我就不要再問 不需要強忍
不需要再為我去擔心
説愛我就不會是恨 不管那責任
太多猜想猜想到晚上更抖震
怕痛就不要再問 不哭最勇敢
糾纏才會傷身
分開了但始終都掛心
來日我聽到問到你的新聞
仍然會吸引
你愛我就不要再問 不需要強忍
不需要再為我去歡欣
説愛我就不會是恨 不管那責任
太多猜想猜想到每日煩惱自尋
怕痛就不要再問 不哭最勇敢
只要還有胸襟
分開了但始終都掛心
來日我聽到問到你的新聞 都會興奮
一開手機愛意話已驟來
來提我心軟不要你等待
一關手機愛意也許不在
唯求你懂得怎去自愛
我不需刻意又再 避開
About This Song

The song "" (Self-Love) by explores the complexity of love and the emotional turbulence that often accompanies romantic relationships. The main theme of the song is centered around the importance of self-love and the challenges of navigating emotions after a breakup. The lyrics capture a sense of vulnerability and heartbreak, reflecting on how past relationships can leave one feeling both nostalgic and conflicted. As the narrator grapples with the remnants of love and the reality of separation, the emotional core speaks to anyone who has experienced the pains of love, loss, and the ultimate need to prioritize oneself.

The narrative unfolds between moments of memory and longing, illustrating the struggle of recognizing when a relationship has run its course. Throughout the song, the narrator expresses a desire for both partners to stop forcing their affections and instead embrace the reality of their feelings. The recurring refrain emphasizes that love should not equate to suffering and that emotional bonds need not be burdensome. Songs about heartbreak often dwell on sadness, but "" takes a more reflective approach, emphasizing the necessity of letting go and finding solace in self-acceptance.

Musically, the composition is underscored by a melodic structure that complements the poignant lyrics. The use of soft instrumentals juxtaposed with emotive vocal delivery enhances the song's introspective nature. Lyrically, employs techniques such as repetition and metaphor to drive home the song's central messagehighlighting the bittersweet nature of reminiscence and the paradox of looking back while also needing to move forward. The subtle shifts in tonal quality mirror the emotional transitions described in the lyrics, effectively allowing listeners to feel the weight of the narrator's journey.

Culturally, "" taps into a growing awareness of mental health and personal wellbeing in modern society. In many Asian cultures, ideas surrounding relationships often emphasize sacrifice and selflessness, sometimes at the cost of ones own emotional health. By advocating for self-love amid heartache, the song resonates with a generation that strives for balance between love for others and love for oneself. This song serves as a reminder of the importance of self-care in the face of emotional challenges, making it both relevant and relatable to a diverse audience.