未開始已經結束

By Dear Jane

只一刻好感太不可信嗎
喜歡等於瞭解愛情嗎
什麼都可變卦
偷一刻温馨也終須覺醒
可惜這顆心已不再年輕
情感輸給理性
太害怕要目睹
過於受傷的程度
叫代價那樣高
也許將心聲吞吐
連天都早知道
有些愛未開始已經結束
未牽手已經退縮
未親暱過 但我已經再無力繼續
有些痛未懂得痛都會懂
未親手抱擁過 但我都猜得透結局
未有親吻過 未有爭拗過
未開始相愛 都應該結束
多少的相差會爭執重傷
好比當一位戰爭裏遺孀
無非出於勉強
抱悔過也就懂
學會放手的難度
卻令我領悟到
愛這東西的深奧
朋友方可偕老
有些愛未開始已經結束
未牽手已經退縮
未親暱過 但我已經再無力繼續
有些痛未懂得痛都會懂
未親手抱擁過 但我都猜得透結局
未有親吻過 未有爭拗過
未開始相愛 都應該結束
講真哪裏有註定愛某一位
好比一隻刺蝟 刺全滿我身體
氣球是你 怎麼可相愛到底
假使你與我更成熟更得體
都知戀愛智慧放低了
方算當中真諦
寧願不想失禮
有些愛未開始已經結束
未温飽已經滿足
未經差錯 但我退出怕胡亂褻瀆
有些痛未懂得痛都會懂
未深刻了解過 但我都猜得透結局
未到寵愛你 未到拋棄我
未開始相愛 也好好結束
About This Song

The song "" ("Some Love Has Already Ended Before It Started") by Dear Jane delves into the complexities of love, heartbreak, and the emotional battles that often accompany the contemplation of romantic relationships. It poignantly explores the idea that some affections, even without fully taking root, can be perceived as having reached their conclusion. The central theme revolves around the fragility of emotions and the weight of disappointment that comes from unrealized potential in romantic connections, suggesting that not all loves need to manifest in physical expressions to be felt deeply.

The narrative communicated in the lyrics reflects an introspective examination of love's nature. The protagonist wrestles with the fear of vulnerability and the potential pain that accompanies genuine attachments. The lyrics articulate a resigned acceptance of heartbreak, suggesting that sometimes, the most prudent decision is to let go before becoming irrevocably entangled in emotional strife. Each verse emphasizes the sentiment that unfulfilled love can still impart a sense of loss and longing, evoking a feeling of melancholy amidst an acceptance of the inevitable.

From a musical standpoint, the composition blends contemporary pop with emotive melodies that enhance the lyrical narrative. The use of poignant imagery in the lyrics contrasts with the somewhat serene musical backdrop, creating an effective tension that mirrors the inner turmoil experienced by the singer. Techniques such as repetition and metaphor are employed skillfully to emphasize feelings of uncertainty and resignation, with lines portraying love as an unavoidable and sometimes painful journey. This lyrical depth, coupled with a melodic approach that invites reflection, makes the piece resonate on both emotional and intellectual levels.

Culturally, the song resonates in the context of modern relationships influenced by societal expectations and the challenges of communication in love. In many cultures, there is often a pressure to succeed in romantic endeavors, which can lead to premature judgments about relationships. "" serves not only as a personal reflection but also as a broader commentary on love's complexities in today's fast-paced society, where many choose to protect themselves from emotional devastation rather than open their hearts to the possibilities of deeper connections.