我不會撒嬌

By 何雁詩

殘酷世代 置身千次競賽 才學會自強忍耐
沉悶有害 難道必須裝可愛 才換到結果花開
當 羣眾喧譁太紛擾 誰又聽到我心跳
能做個淑女我偏懶去撒嬌
若非 誠意不必再騷擾 留住這青春很需要
爭取分秒 明確對焦
無視障礙 理想超重負載 誰讓我值回等待
從沒替代 難道經得起感慨
能共你永不分開
當 羣眾喧譁太紛擾 誰又聽到我心跳
能做個淑女我偏懶去撒嬌
若非 誠意不必再騷擾 難道求生都必需要
懂得怎笑 練到細腰 來炫耀
當 羣眾喧譁太紛擾 誰又聽到我心跳
還用愛讓我記得怎去撒嬌
明知 誠意畢竟那麼少 而幸福憧憬多飄渺
真心需要 時間揭曉
殘酷世代 置身千次競賽 良善也倖存心內
情像意外 緣份可一不可再
這份情 我偏不想放開
TVB劇集 不懂撒嬌的女人 主題曲
About This Song

The song "" ("I Won't Be Cutesy") by (He Yan Shi) serves as a poignant exploration of contemporary femininity amid societal pressures. The main theme revolves around the speaker's struggle to assert her identity in a world that often equates femininity with the ability to be charming or submissive. She expresses her reluctance to conform to traditional expectations of womanhood, specifically the notion of "" (being cutesy or playful), which many see as a tool for gaining affection or favorable outcomes. The emotional core of the song is a powerful declaration of self-reliance and authenticity, portraying a longing to be understood beyond superficial displays of femininity.

The narrative tells the story of a woman who feels overwhelmed by societal noise and competition. In striving for her own goals, she reflects on the challenges faced in maintaining her integrity and true self, particularly in a world focused on appearances. Her candid admissions bring forth the message that genuine relationships require sincerity rather than manipulation. Lyrics such as (If there is no sincerity, theres no need to bother) emphasize the need for honesty, underscoring the emotional complexities of modern connections.

Musically, the song employs a blend of pop instrumentation with an emotional undertone, enriching its lyrical message. The melody captures a mix of melancholy and empowerment, allowing listeners to fully engage with the sentiments expressed. Lyrical techniques, such as repetition and rhetorical questions, effectively convey the internal conflict the singer experiences, reinforcing the songs themes. The repetition of phrases like (When the crowds noise is too distracting) creates a rhythmic anchor, making the listener acutely aware of the chaos surrounding the protagonist.

Culturally, "" resonates with the prevailing discussions about gender roles and individual identity in modern society. It speaks to a generation of women who are increasingly challenging traditional molds, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of strength and vulnerability. The song also serves as the theme for the TVB drama "" (The Woman Who Doesn't Know How to Be Cutesy), further enhancing its relevance and appeal to audiences navigating similar narratives in their own lives.