狠心愛我

By 梁詠琪

常未令人滿意 原來是我幼稚
明白你一番好意 迫不得已 當我孩子
讓我感受世界冷酷
風雪割傷嘴臉那劇痛程度
然後你全程旁觀迫我去進步
很 感激你為我好
狠心推我學跌倒 人才能走路
如果 一生也被當寶
安穩卻未看到 事實我不好
為我好 必先要別離讓我明白到
誰人能於温室快樂去終老
留給我眼淚回報 明日成就便更高
沒有表示半句憤怒
不再妄想今日你為我留步
明日我無暇原好失去你代價高
教訓我最好 傷透我更好
很 感激你為我好
狠心推我學跌倒 人才能走路
如果 一生也被當寶
安穩卻未看到 事實我不好
為我好 必先要別離讓我明白到
誰人能於温室快樂去終老
留給我眼淚回報 猶如良藥全為我好
狠心推我學跌倒 人才能走路
如果 一生也被當寶
安穩卻未看到 事實我不好
為我好 必先要別離讓我明白到
誰人能於温室快樂去終老
留給我眼淚回報 明日成就便更高
讓我感受世界冷酷 願你他日好心報報
期望我重新的再造 日後讓你達到
About This Song

The song "" by (Gigi Leung) delves into the complexities of love, personal growth, and the often painful lessons we must learn through experience. At its emotional core, it explores the tension between the comfort of being cherished and the necessity of facing reality. The lyrics encapsulate a journey of self-discovery, where the protagonist acknowledges their past naivety and the role of a significant other as both a supporter and a harsh teacher. This duality creates a poignant reflection on the bittersweet nature of love that prompts maturity and resilience.

The overarching message of the song suggests that true love sometimes requires tough love; the artist portrays a narrative in which the loved one must let go in order for the protagonist to grow. The use of imagery, such as feeling the world's harshness and the metaphor of falling down to learn to stand up, effectively conveys a sense of struggle and eventual empowerment. The lines articulate a clear contrast between a sheltered existence and the challenges that foster personal development, making it relatable to anyone who has undergone significant life changes or hardships.

Musically, the song features a blend of emotive melodies and poignant lyricism, utilizing techniques like repetition and vivid metaphoric language to enhance its emotional impact. The uplifting yet somber soundscape allows the lyrics to shine, as it captures the essence of longing and realization. Gigi Leung's vocal delivery is beautifully nuanced, embodying both fragility and strength, which helps to draw listeners into the intimate narrative of the song.

Culturally, "" resonates powerfully within the context of contemporary Chinese music, where themes of love and personal sacrifice are often explored. It reflects a growing awareness in modern society regarding mental and emotional well-being, emphasizing that sometimes the most loving act can be to let someone experience their own challenges. This song stands as a testament to the idea that growth often comes from pain, making it a significant contribution to the discourse on love and self-awareness in the realm of popular music.