獨自去偷歡

By 劉德華

未去管 誰不滿 習慣自己的事由我管
若你走 才不管 自我空間不要你伴
我內心中我反我叛 (不用你管)
放任趕走我的不滿 (不用你管)
我用不羈殺死困悶 (不用你管)
快樂心中常為我伴
獨自去偷歡我謝絕你監管
道別你身邊我寂寞找個伴
獨自去偷歡我未習慣這般
道別你身邊我但未敢放寬
About This Song

"" ("Stealing Joy Alone") is a poignant and introspective ballad by the renowned Hong Kong artist (Andy Lau), exploring themes of independence, solitude, and the pursuit of happiness in the face of emotional turmoil. The lyrical content conveys a strong sense of self-reliance, where the narrator asserts their autonomy in dealing with their inner conflicts and dissatisfaction in relationships. The recurring phrase "" ("No need for you to worry") highlights the protagonist's desire to assert control over their emotional landscape, showcasing a blend of vulnerability and resilience.

The narrative unfolds as the protagonist grapples with feelings of loneliness while simultaneously pushing away the influence of others. With a tone that oscillates between defiance and yearning, the song paints a picture of an individual who seeks to enjoy life on their own terms, rejecting the constraints imposed by external expectations. The duality of wanting companionship yet feeling the need for personal space is a compelling aspect of the song, resonating with listeners who have experienced similar struggles in their own lives.

Musically, the composition is marked by its emotive melody and thoughtful arrangement, which enhance the lyrical depth. The use of gentle instrumentation creates a reflective atmosphere, allowing the lyrics to shine. Notable lyrical techniques include the repetition of certain phrases that emphasize the protagonist's longing for emotional freedom and the internal conflict that comes with it. The contrasting imagery of solitude versus companionship adds layers of complexity to the narrative, making it relatable and impactful.

Culturally, "" reflects a broader societal conversation around individuality in contemporary Chinese society, where traditional values often emphasize communal living and emotional interdependence. Lau's exploration of solitary joy and self-health invites listeners to re-evaluate their relationships and the societal norms surrounding love and happiness. This song stands out as an anthem for those seeking to carve out their own paths while acknowledging the inherent loneliness that can accompany such choices.