後知後覺

By 馮允謙

她釋出温柔 我發覺經已事後
她聲音親厚 但未及跟她協奏
她春天要求 我答應經已深秋
每每到了盡頭方知道不可挽救
習慣了被寵愛 習慣被偏愛
習慣地相愛到傷害
彷彿給照顧份屬應該
每一個是為服務我便存在
直至仰慕不再 直至被淹蓋
直至被輕率的對待
疏忽的我要是被推開 才洞察到愛
多一些經營 愛會有雙倍壽命
多一些呼應 寂寞被温馨戰勝
多一些聰明 會聽到她的心聲
去到我要奉承她早已不得要領
習慣了被寵愛 習慣被偏愛
習慣地相愛到傷害
彷彿給照顧份屬應該
每一個是為服務我便存在
直至仰慕不再 直至被淹蓋
直至被輕率的對待
疏忽的我要是被推開 才洞察到愛
從前還未會判別 善待與虧待
並未明白那些愛 當分得出愛情大概
當一天花已跌下來 方得悉春季有過花開
若對我越慷慨 越對越感慨
就這樣一次次傷害
彷彿需要我歷盡分開
至醒覺浪漫日月確實存在
學會了被寵愛 學會被偏愛
學會認真一點對待
疏忽的我到事後方知 曾遇上最愛
感激她以眼淚做分析 我方知道愛
About This Song

The song "" ("Later Realization") by delves into the complexities of love and the often painful journey of recognizing one's mistakes within a relationship. The main theme revolves around the realization of love and care that often comes too late, highlighting a sense of regret and longing. It captures the emotional turmoil when affection is taken for granted and the gradual awakening to the nuances of emotional connections.

The narrative tells the story of someone who reflects on their relationship only after it has faltered. The lyrics express feelings of neglect and complacency in love, revealing how the protagonist enjoys the comfort of being cared for but fails to reciprocate that love effectively. It emphasizes a gradual shift in awareness, as the singer learns through hurt and mistakesrealizing that love requires active participation and sensitivity. The repeated cycles of receiving love, taking it for granted, and eventually suffering loss serve as poignant reminders of the fragility of relationships.

Musically, the song combines melodic elements with introspective lyrics that enhance its emotional depth. The lyrical structure employs vivid imagery and metaphors, such as comparisons to changing seasons, to illustrate the passage of time and the evolution of feelings. Techniques like repetition and contrast enrich the storytelling, allowing listeners to feel the weight of regret and the bittersweet nature of love. The gentle yet haunting melody complements the reflective tone of the lyrics, making the song resonate deeply with the audience.

In the context of Chinese culture, "" resonates with prevalent societal themes of romance and interpersonal relationships, where understanding and emotional intelligence are highly valued. The song articulates a universal experience of loveoften idealized in Eastern philosophieswhile presenting a modern narrative that encourages listeners to actively engage and cherish their relationships. This balance of tradition and contemporary issues in love makes the song relevant and relatable to many audience members.