尋開心

By 趙學而

別來扮 伶仃孤苦身世
你是我哪位
誰也學會 拾得起 放得低
而眼淚嗎 我不敢發揮
就如洞悉一切
亂世的情侶 誰亦滿身傷勢
別忙着 狂抽煙的手勢
以為愁腸是美麗
我令你 有歡慰 才是實際
你讓我 有安慰 誰亦不必理虧
你別要 再幽怨 和慚愧
我尋你開心 你尋我開心
我們還有什麼可以恨
我贈你體温 你贈我興奮
男或女來製造愛我不關心
愛情求開心 沒有所謂敵人
快別要破壞美好氣氛
別在乎什麼 所愛非人
誰能讓你愉快 便算 合襯
(誰能讓你愉快 便安枕)
(誰能讓你愉快 和安枕
也就能合襯)
About This Song

The song "" by Zhao Xue'er () encapsulates a theme of seeking joy and emotional connection amid the complexities of love and relationships. The lyrics reflect an understanding of human vulnerability, especially in the context of romantic bonds. The emotional core of the song lies in the intersection of happiness and pain; it criticizes the tendency to dwell in sorrow while emphasizing the importance of mutual joy in relationships.

Throughout the song, Zhao Xue'er conveys the message of finding solace in companionship, urging partners to let go of guilt and embrace moments of joy together. The repeated refrain encourages a shift from despair to delight, suggesting that love should be a source of comfort rather than conflict. By highlighting phrases like "I seek your happiness, you seek my happiness," the song promotes a partnership rooted in shared emotional experiences, reminding listeners that relationships thrive on mutual support and understanding.

Musically, the track features a blend of contemporary pop elements with a subtle acoustic backdrop that complements the heartfelt lyrics. Noteworthy lyrical techniques include the use of conversational tone and relatable imagery, which invite listeners to reflect on their own experiences. The juxtaposition of light and somber themes creates a dynamic listening experience that resonates deeply with the audience.

Culturally, "" speaks to a broader societal context of modern relationships in Chinese-speaking communities, where the pressure to conform to traditional norms can often hinder open expressions of emotion. By advocating for a light-hearted approach to love and encouraging listeners to prioritize happiness, Zhao Xue'er contributes to a growing discourse on emotional authenticity and the importance of joy in romantic encounters.