愛與痛的邊緣

By 王菲

徘徊傍徨路前
回望這一段
你吻過我的臉
曾是百千遍
沒去想 終有一天
夜雨中 找不到打算
讓我孤單這邊
一點鐘等到三點
那怕與你相見
仍是我心願
我也有我感覺
難道要遮掩
若已經不想跟我相戀
又卻怎麼口口聲聲的欺騙
讓我一等再等
在等一天共你拾回温暖
情像雨點 似斷難斷
愈是去想 更是凌亂
我已經不想跟你痴纏
我有我的尊嚴不想再受損
無奈我心 要辨難辨
道別再等 也未如願
永遠在愛與痛的邊緣
應該怎麼決定挑選
About This Song

"" (On the Edge of Love and Pain) by (Faye Wong) is a poignant reflection on the complexities of love and longing. The song delves deep into the emotional turmoil experienced by someone caught in a relationship that oscillates between hope and despair. It articulates the struggle of balancing desire for connection with self-respect, outlining the heart-wrenching experience of waiting for someone whose feelings may not mirror one's own. The haunting soundscape, combined with Wong's ethereal voice, carries listeners through an intricate emotional landscape, making it resonant with anyone who has navigated the trials of love.

The narrative conveyed through the lyrics is one of introspection and vulnerability. The protagonist grapples with memories of affection, represented by the metaphor of kisses that occurred 'thousands of times.' Yet, the song poignantly juxtaposes this sweetness with the overshadowing reality of betrayal and unreciprocated feelings. The protagonist's reflective journey includes moments of waiting in solitude, where the passage of time amplifies their sense of isolation and yearning. Lines like "" (I no longer want to be obsessed with you) underline the struggle to maintain dignity amidst emotional turmoil, showcasing a powerful assertion of self-worth.

Musically, the song features an atmospheric arrangement that complements its lyrical themes. The production incorporates ethereal synths and subtle instrumental layers that create a dream-like quality, enhancing the melancholic mood. Wong's vocal delivery is both soft and haunting, successfully conveying a sense of fragility. The lyrical techniques employed, such as repetition and vivid imagery, evoke feelings of nostalgia and heartache, allowing listeners to immerse themselves in the emotional depth of the piece without losing clarity of its message.

Culturally, "" holds significant weight in exploring the complexities of love in a contemporary context, particularly within Chinese society where personal relationships are intertwined with social expectations. Faye Wong's unique stylistic approach and emotional authenticity helped pave the way for a more open dialogue about love and personal identity, making her a significant figure in modern Chinese pop music. This song resonates not just as a personal narrative but also as an emblem of the universal quest for connection, understanding, and self-acceptance.