答應我你會愛上好男人

By 李國祥

聽得出這種苦笑聲
告訴我別來不高興
但曾經 是曾經
儘管彼此孤苦伶仃
怎麼總不張開眼睛
你太有戀愛的本領
但男人像流星
沒多少可抓緊
也永未看清
答應我你會愛上好男人
別為着寂寞便亂去陪襯
從前如何做錯
即使怎麼怨憤
悲哀卻不能繼續發生
告訴我你每晚也不用等
但願在日後未用我憐憫
牽不緊一雙手
交不低一個吻
都不想當中有淚印
清醒一點不可以麼
你説你未停失戀過
但如果 沒如果
沒真心的戀火
永遠沒結果
答應我你會愛上好男人
別為着寂寞便亂去陪襯
從前如何做錯
即使怎麼怨憤
悲哀卻不能繼續發生
告訴我你每晚也不用等
但願在日後未用我憐憫
牽不緊一雙手
交不低一個吻
都不想當中有淚印
About This Song

The song "" (Promise Me You'll Fall for a Good Man) by explores the themes of love, loneliness, and self-worth through a poignant narrative. At its emotional core, the song reflects the sorrow and vulnerability of a person grappling with feelings of rejection and the hope for a more meaningful connection. The protagonist expresses a deep concern for their partner, urging them to seek genuine affection rather than settling for fleeting companionship to stave off their loneliness.

In terms of storytelling, the lyrics convey a heartfelt plea to the listener, advocating for a future where they will not end up in relationships driven by desperation or sadness. The recurring notion of love being a "shooting star" signifies its transient nature, pointing to the idea that while one may be attracted to many, true emotional connections are rare and should be cherished when found. The protagonist laments past mistakes and the pain that can persist if one bases their choices on fear of being alone rather than authentic feelings.

Musically, the composition harnesses a blend of soft melodies with a melancholic undertone that complements the introspective lyrics. The use of repeated phrases emphasizes the protagonist's yearning and the urgency of the message, while the conversational tone makes the emotions accessible and relatable. The lyrical techniques employed, such as metaphors comparing love to heavenly phenomena and poignant imagery filled with a sense of loss, help deepen the impact of the song.

Culturally, the song reflects a broader societal conversation in many East Asian contexts regarding romantic relationships and personal fulfillment. The emphasis on finding a "good man" speaks to traditional values while also highlighting the challenges modern individuals face in navigating love and loneliness. Ultimately, 's work resonates with listeners who may feel trapped in cycles of unfulfilling relationships, encouraging them to seek out the profound connections that truly matter.