別怪他

By 吳卓羲

不相信愛我能永久 只想到我也曾棄舊
曾經 就算痛苦仍捉緊你手
怎相信最後你竟 隨她愉快遠走
如放任 仍放任 我也知醜
別怪他 別怪他 別再傷心對吧
從遇見的一剎 是捉緊了嗎
別怪他 別怪他 別再敷衍對話
疲累了讓我休假
她怎計算也無對手 畢竟你我確曾邂逅
如果 沒有記憶也不必顫抖
怎相信最後你竟 隨她愉快遠走
如放任 仍放任 難過更傷透
別怪他 別怪他 別再傷心對吧
從遇見的一剎 是捉緊了嗎
別怪他 別怪他
別太在意愛已不再萌芽
經歲月去感化 或許不再害怕
楊秀惠
About This Song

The song "" ("Don't Blame Him") by (William Chan) encapsulates the complex emotions surrounding the end of a romantic relationship. At its core, the song explores themes of heartbreak, acceptance, and the bittersweet nature of love. The lyrics reveal a struggle between clinging to the past and recognizing the inevitable, as the protagonist grapples with feelings of betrayal and sorrow tied to a love that has faded. This emotional undercurrent is amplified by the poignant delivery from the artist, making it resonate strongly with listeners who have experienced similar heartbreak.

The narrative portrayed through the lyrics tells a story of love lost, where the protagonist reflects on the transient nature of relationships. The repeated plea of "" highlights a poignant resignation to the emotional turmoil, suggesting that the real issue lies not just in the actions of a partner but also in the acceptance of the circumstances that led to the relationship's demise. The song poignantly conveys that while love may not last forever, the memories and connections forged will remain, even as the emotional landscape shifts.

Musically, the song features a blend of contemporary pop elements with a melodic structure that complements its reflective and somber lyrics. Wu's emotive vocal style enhances the rawness of the narrative, while musical arrangements featuring gentle instrumentation provide a delicate backdrop that allows the lyrics to take center stage. Notable lyrical techniques include vivid imagery and introspective questions that invite listeners to engage deeply with the protagonists emotional journey.

Culturally, "" resonates in the context of modern relationships within Chinese society, where themes of love, commitment, and heartbreak are universally relatable yet are depicted with specific cultural nuances. The song captures a common sentiment found in romantic relationships, illustrating how love can be both beautiful and painful. It serves as a reminder that while love may falter, the experience of loving and losing continues to shape personal narratives and emotional growth.