給自己的情書

By 王菲

請不要灰心 你也會有人妒忌
你仰望到太高 貶低的只有自己
別蕩失太早 旅遊有太多勝地
你記住你髮膚 會與你慶祝鑽禧
慰藉自己 開心的東西要專心記起
愛護自己 是地上拾到的真理
寫這高貴情書 用自言自語 作我的天書
自己都不愛 怎麼相愛
怎麼可給愛人好處
這千斤重情書 在夜闌盡處
如門前大樹 沒有他倚靠
歸家也不必撇雨
請不要哀傷 我會當你是偶像
你要別人憐愛 請安裝一個藥箱
做什麼也好 別為着得到讚賞
你要強壯到底 再去替對方設想
拋得開手裏玩具
先懂得好好進睡
深谷都攀過後
從泥濘尋到這不甘心相信的金句
寫這高貴情書 用自言自語 作我的天書
自己都不愛 怎麼相愛
怎麼可給愛人好處
這千斤重情書 在夜闌盡處
如門前大樹 他不可倚靠
歸家也不必撇雨
我要給我 寫這高貴情書
用自言自語 作我的天書
自己都不愛 怎麼相愛
怎麼可給愛人好處
憑着我這千斤重情書 在夜闌盡處
如門前大樹 沒有他倚靠
歸家也不必撇雨
About This Song

"" (translated as "A Love Letter to Myself") is a poignant track by renowned Chinese artist (Faye Wong) that explores themes of self-love, introspection, and emotional resilience. The song's emotional core centers around the idea of nurturing oneself before seeking connection with others. Wang Faye delicately urges listeners to acknowledge their worth and validate their own feelings instead of relying on external admiration and validation. The sentiment is a powerful reminder that self-acceptance is fundamental to forming healthy relationships.

The narrative woven through the lyrics tells a story of personal growth and self-reflection. It emphasizes the importance of not being disheartened by jealousy and societal pressures while reminding the listener to cherish their own accomplishments and achievements, even in solitude. The metaphor of a "heavy love letter" symbolizes the burdens and expectations one carries in relationships and life. The chorus repetitively raises the question of how one can genuinely love another if they cannot love themselves, driving home the fundamental message of self-compassion as a precursor to giving love to others.

Musically, the song exhibits a blend of introspective melodies and minimalist arrangements, allowing Faye Wong's ethereal voice to shine. The use of conversational lyrical techniques, such as self-dialogue, creates an intimate atmosphere that further invites the listener into a reflective space. The combination of light instrumentation and poignant lyrics encapsulates the song's theme beautifully, making it a heartfelt anthem for self-discovery and empowerment.

Culturally, "" resonates strongly within the context of contemporary society, where self-care and mental wellness have become important issues. Faye Wong, a progressive figure in the Chinese music scene, often challenges societal norms through her art, and this song continues that tradition by advocating for self-love as an essential step toward emotional health. The cultural relevance of this message is significant, especially in a world that frequently emphasizes external success over internal happiness.