寧願單身

By 漢洋

聽説人會給周遭改變
永遠難免有一天生厭
愛到再轟烈 在最後都一一食言
我也能算已得到解脱
過去情節也不想多説
我有過經驗 但結局仍然難避免
獨自上班 直到察覺已很晚
每日拼命工作 人專注會蓋過孤單
寧願像這般單身 或更加開心
沒有因他失落靈魂
誰當初花光一切 到頭來成全別人
寧願像這般單身 便永不傷心
放手勝於雙方被困
愛得太深等於自刎 不想痛心
敬請勿接吻
見過無數個風光婚宴
每個環節也相當精緻
愛到更體面 但最後都推翻誓言
我也能算已鬆開死結
教訓難免叫心境改變
有過這經驗 漸已學會如何自處
獨自晚餐 或會覺有點不慣
要是有些感嘆 回家要喊也有空間
寧願像這般單身 或更加開心
沒有因他失落靈魂
誰當初花光一切 到頭來成全別人
寧願像這般單身 便永不傷心
放手勝於雙方被困
愛得太深等於自刎 不想痛心
也不願接吻
天天加深的錯 已然完全沒寄望
雙方都不好過 何事還要拖
寧願像這般單身 沒那麼天真
願意一生依賴別人
誰甘心交出一切 到頭來完全沒信任
寧願像這般單身 便永不傷心
結束勝於雙方被困
愛得太深等於自刎 不想痛心
已經受教訓
不想結婚 已不願接吻
About This Song

The song ("Rather Stay Single") by captures the complexities of modern relationships and the emotional turmoil that often accompanies them. At its core, this track explores the theme of self-preservation in the face of love's inevitable disappointments. The singer reflects on the pain that comes from deep emotional investments and the heartache that follows the disillusionment of romantic ideals. Rather than succumb to the pressures of a societal expectation to find love, the protagonist embraces singlehood as a means of protecting their psyche and maintaining personal happiness.

The narrative unfolds as an introspective journey where the singer recounts past experiences of lovejoyful yet ultimately unfulfilling. They vividly express the idea that falling deeply for someone can lead to profound hurt, alluding to the sacrifices made that often go unreciprocated. The repetition of phrases emphasizing a preference for remaining single signifies resilience, with the message that self-contentment and emotional independence are preferable states compared to the turmoil that love can bring. This creates a relatable platform for individuals who may feel disillusioned with romantic relationships.

Musically, the composition leverages a contemplative tone, with a gentle melody that mirrors the reflective nature of the lyrics. The use of contrasting lyrical imagerybetween the beauty of romantic celebrations and the bitter reality of broken vowsenhances the emotional depth of the song. employs conversational language and relatable scenarios that resonate with listeners, using vivid metaphors to articulate feelings of hurt and freedom. The structure of the song, balancing verses that recount personal experiences with a resolute chorus celebrating independence, reinforces the overarching message.

Culturally, speaks to a growing trend in contemporary society where individuals are increasingly prioritizing self-love and personal fulfillment over traditional romantic pursuits. In many Asian cultures, where familial expectations around marriage and relationships can be particularly strong, this song offers a refreshing perspective that champions personal choice. It challenges the stigma attached to being single, appealing to a younger audience that values emotional health and self-reliance. Thus, s work becomes not merely a reflection of personal sentiment but an anthem for those advocating for a redefined view of love and singlehood.