情誡

By 王菲

不要迷信情變等於燈滅
不要含淚直到與他肯定再不相見
愛恨無須壯烈 不隨便狂熱
不要迷信汗腺滲出綺麗
不要虔誠直到懂得怎樣去愛魔鬼
紀念留給下世 不對別人發誓
和誰亦記得 不能容他寵壞
不要對他倚賴
感情隨他出賣 若你喜歡猶大
示愛不宜抬高姿態
不要太明目張膽崇拜 一字記之曰
把紀念留給下世 不對別人發誓
和誰亦記得 不能容他寵壞
不要對他倚賴
感情隨他出賣 若你喜歡猶大
示愛不宜抬高姿態
不要太明目張膽崇拜 談情不似遊街
和誰亦記得 不能容他寵壞
不要對他倚賴
感情隨他出賣 若你喜歡猶大
示愛不宜抬高姿態
不要太明目張膽崇拜 一字記之曰
為這為那談情為了享受
為你為我為何為他忍受
About This Song

The song "" ("Love Warning") by the renowned Chinese artist (Faye Wong) delves into the complexities of love and relationships, encapsulating themes of emotional caution, self-empowerment, and the pitfalls of infatuation. With poignant lyrics that advise against blind devotion, the song emphasizes a more pragmatic and resilient approach to love, suggesting that heartache and affection can coexist, but one should remain grounded in reality. The emotional core of the song challenges listeners to reflect on their relationships and the potential consequences of overinvestment in someone who may not reciprocate their feelings.

The narrative conveyed within the lyrics serves as a cautionary tale about love and trust. Wong articulates a sense of disillusionment with the romantic ideal, warning against the naivety of treating love as a sacred bond. Phrases urging listeners not to worship their partners or invest solely in romantic ideals underscore the importance of independence and self-respect. The repeated references to not relying on a partner eloquently highlight the impermanence of emotions and relationships, encouraging a balanced view that values personal integrity over blind affection.

Musically, the song combines ethereal melodies with Wong's haunting vocals, creating an atmosphere that accentuates the introspective nature of the lyrics. The use of metaphorical language in the lyrics, such as the comparison of unrequited love to the betrayal of Judas, adds depth and resonance to the emotional landscape of the song. Additionally, the refrain employs both subtlety and directness in its message, skillfully blending poetic imagery with relatable sentiments, making it both a profound reflection on love and an accessible listening experience.

Culturally, "" resonates deeply within contemporary Chinese society, where notions of love and relationships have evolved. Wong's approach to addressing love's complexities aligns with a growing discourse about emotional intelligence and autonomy in personal relationships, particularly among younger generations. This song serves not just as an artistic expression but as a societal commentary, encouraging listeners to navigate their emotional journeys with discernment and self-awareness.