多得他

By 王菲

當初 初給他的雙手抱我那一瞬
曾軟軟笑笑 但不知所措卻竟相信
在世界 我最軟弱 所以要他相擁
就讓我那懶懶身軀 躲進臂彎之中
無論現實或是造夢 都給他每秒操縱
從來沒發覺 他的呼吸催促我變得多蠢
誤信了我 弱質纖纖 隨便也感動
並未知道我也可以 完全麻木放縱
多得他給我勇氣 真的要多得他
去使我懂得 每一個故事結尾
無非別離 總是別離
失去他先知 我也可不需要那臂彎不哭 也不生氣
我最初天天 只等他將體温軀去我寒意
還承認我太怕冷要靠愛侶輸出暖意
誰料到今天只得一個 仍然可以生活
若是感到四處太冷漠 穿上我的冬衣
我最初抓緊他的雙手 從來不愛自由
能讓我永遠地擁有 已覺真的富有
那料這又抹掉眼淚也要靠我的手
即使他已愛我多久 仍會高飛遠走
他的愛意反覆改變我 也許相戀得太多
人亦漸漸不知對錯
天生孤單過路再上路也不清楚
要看得清楚卻不必需要那點戀火
多得他不再愛我
無非別離 總是別離
失去他先知 我也可不需要那臂彎不哭
About This Song

The song "" ("Thankful for Him") by the renowned artist (Faye Wong) delves into the complex emotions surrounding love, vulnerability, and the inevitable experiences of separation. Through poignant lyrics, the song captures a sense of longing and the struggle for emotional independence in the wake of a significant relationship. It speaks to the comfort and warmth derived from love while also reflecting on the harsh reality of loss and the process of healing.

As the narrator reminisces about the past, she reveals her initial reliance on her partner for support and warmth, illustrating how love can often make one feel both empowered and vulnerable. The repeated acknowledgment of needing "" (him) serves not just as an anchor for her emotions but also highlights the struggle of balancing dependence with self-sufficiency. The lyrics convey a narrative of realizing that while relationships can provide solace, they can also bring about feelings of entrapment and confusion regarding ones true self. Ultimately, the song suggests that while love enriches life, it can also lead to bittersweet separations.

Musically, the song incorporates soft melodies and a delicate vocal delivery, characteristic of Wong's style, which enhances its emotional depth. The lyrical techniques employed include vivid imagery and self-reflective metaphors, allowing listeners to connect intimately with the conveyed sentiments. The subtle mood shifts in the instrumentation underscore the song's emotional transitions from warmth to a sense of loss, mirroring the lyrical exploration of love's duality.

Culturally, is known for her ethereal voice and unique blending of pop and traditional Chinese musical elements, and "" resonates strongly within the contemporary Chinese music scene. It speaks to universal themes of love and heartbreak, which transcends cultural boundaries, making it relatable to a broad audience. This song not only showcases her artistic prowess but also reflects the evolving perspective on love and emotional expression in modern society.