男孩像你

By 薛凱琪

男孩們來約我一般送花
而無人能似你親手種花
但男孩像你 不要我下嫁
男孩們能有你般纖細嗎
談情時明我那種感性嗎
但男孩像你 只愛同類嗎
假使間 這一刻 我與你 憑良心
想一想 揀一揀 實在是 和誰襯
你會説 是命運 你與我 其實熟得很
但他總比較親
好知己 好姊妹 哪裏會 談情感
不牽手 不親嘴 但是亦 能陪我 下半生
問你 這夜最後 送誰回家 我信那個會是我
但我 心裏知道 男孩像你 不想跟妹妹拍拖
共你笑着説着 戲劇時裝 哪怕錯過了幸福
彼此磋跎 仍然可以 彼此幫助 沉悶晚上 相約渡過
寒流來何以你先擁抱他
回頭時才替我遮擋雪花
是從甜蜜裏 分我甜蜜嗎
如從前無法碰到這個他
和良朋能夠變出戀愛嗎
若然蒙着眼 又能投入嗎
像個世上最壞 愛情童話 最襯你那個是我
就算都算相愛 仍然沒法 比兄妹浪漫更多
共我繼續約會 喝茶談天 你説勝過了共他
一起消磨 為何他會 得到寶座 長伴身邊的卻是我
About This Song

The song "" (Boys Like You) by (Faye Wong) explores the nuanced emotions surrounding unrequited love and the complexities of relationships, particularly between friends and potential romantic partners. The central theme delves into the idea of deep affection that may not translate into traditional romantic love. Instead, the lyrics express a bittersweet acknowledgment of platonic connections that hold sentimental value. The emotional core lies in the longing for a relationship that goes beyond mere friendship, as well as the realization that sometimes the person we love the most isn't meant to be our partner.

In the narrative of the song, the protagonist reflects on the unique bond shared with someone she adores. The lyrics illustrate her thoughts on the superficiality of typical romantic gestures from other boys, contrasting them with the genuine, heartfelt connection she shares with her friend. The message unveils the inner turmoil of wanting more from a friendship but recognizing that the feelings may not be mutual or reciprocated. The song captures the essence of friendship interwoven with romantic feelings, portraying the delicate balance between the two and the emotional complexity that arises from such entanglements.

Musically, "" employs soft melodies coupled with a gentle pop rhythm, creating an intimate atmosphere that complements the reflective nature of the lyrics. Notable lyrical techniques include the use of conversational language, which draws listeners into a personal and relatable narrative. The imagery of flowers symbolizes growth and care, suggesting that love can be nurtured in different forms, not always leading to romance. Additionally, the interplay of feelings represented through simple yet poignant metaphors enhances the song's emotional depth.

Culturally, the song resonates with the modern musical landscape of Asian pop, where themes of unrequited love and deep companionship are commonly explored. It reflects the societal expectation of relationships while subtly challenging the norms by showcasing the importance of emotional intimacy without the need for romantic commitments. The song strikes a chord with listeners who have experienced similar feelings, highlighting the value of lasting friendship alongside romantic possibilities, and ultimately suggesting that love comes in many shapes and forms.