座右銘

By 吳雨霏

很信命 當我每次哭 亦只有結他聲
喃喃自語數星星 孤單 也像註定
祈求被愛的温馨
呼天都不應 已經很適應
我心事 誰又會在意想聽
很冷靜 知道我愛的 定把我當佈景
平凡像我這一種 今天要認了命
才能學會不貪心
碰不到戀愛 也毫無反應
單戀相戀失戀 説穿了盡是陷阱
放手 得我有這本領
一個自愛也好 越對我好
越需要控制我反應
對未來沒信心 怎張開眼睛
花花世界太過美 哪有我蹤影
怕有天放心後 才給我最愛拋棄
我要謹守我座右銘
很信命 不信有美好 幸福過更冷清
同情沒法把不安驅走 已是確定
原來避免輸不起
退出的方法 叫遺忘本性
不甘不忍不想 我只有越坐越靜
我的 快樂就像泡影
一個自愛也好 越對我好
越需要控制我反應
對未來沒信心 怎張開眼睛
花花世界太過美 哪有我蹤影
怕有天放心後 才給我最愛拋棄
我要謹守我座右銘
派對滿布愛情來臨的風景
獨自妒忌別人 誰能夠高興
註定無人來示愛 我都不作聲
即使一個自愛也好 越對我好
越需要控制我反應
對未來還沒信心 怎張開眼睛
花花世界太過美 哪有我蹤影
有更心跳選擇 而比我遠遠優勝
如何專一都想轉性
與情人齊眉白髮 問誰可保證
About This Song

The song "" by (Uni Kwan) presents a poignant exploration of loneliness, fate, and the complexities of love. The emotional core of the song grapples with feelings of isolation and resignation, as the narrator reflects on their experiences of unrequited love and the inevitability of heartbreak. Throughout the lyrics, phrases like (I believe in fate) express a sense of acceptance regarding life's unpredictability, while simultaneously conveying the deep yearning for warmth and affection. The juxtaposition of hope and despair creates a rich emotional landscape that many listeners can relate to.

The narrative unfolds as the protagonist recounts their encounters with love and rejection, delving into the traps of one-sided affection. Lines such as, ' ' (Unreciprocated love, romantic entanglements, all are traps when laid bare) encapsulate the disillusionment that accompanies the search for meaningful connections. This inner monologue reflects not only personal vulnerability but also the universal struggle of seeking acceptance in a world that often feels indifferent. The narrator's resolve to adhere to their '' (personal motto) reveals a protective mechanism created to cope with emotional pain, reinforcing the song's theme of self-preservation in the face of love's challenges.

Musically, the song can be characterized by its introspective melody and use of spacious arrangements that complement the reflective lyrics. The vocal delivery conveys a sense of calm detachment, aligning with the lyrical content that centers around emotional restraint and quiet contemplation. Notable lyrical techniques such as vivid imagery, metaphor, and repetition amplify the themes of the song, capturing the essence of longing and self-protection while remaining grounded in personal experience. The use of everyday language makes the sentiments accessible, allowing listeners from various backgrounds to connect with the song.

From a cultural perspective, "" resonates with the struggles of modern societal expectations on love and relationships, especially within the Chinese context where themes of duty and familial expectations often weigh heavily on personal choices. The song encapsulates the bittersweet reality of navigating romantic desires in a world that frequently feels full of competition and superficiality, thus striking a chord with many young listeners who find themselves at a crossroads between ambition and emotional fulfillment.