戀愛疲勞

By 吳雨霏

我也以為 如果忍不下去
要放生無情情侶 便未累及誰
何以每到最後
如何宏大寬厚去面對
那滴淚落在唇上 跌不碎
我更以為 無需擔心犯錯
到處都人來人去 聚別未怕多
令姊妹剛擔心過再祝賀
無奈一個又再一個
快樂力敵難過 厭倦到想躲
大錯特錯都可將愛當感冒
病後轉眼又再醫好
頑強又豁達 橫渡旅途
所有道理亦已知道
大愛特愛早知可以要怎做
就是不要為了得到
長期像愛奴 再提防自保
一戀愛便愛得疲勞
全為經過做到 放棄擁有練到
成為了專家 偏偏不敢再擁抱
我怕過誰 誰真這麼重要
也看通 彌留情侶 總喜歡看錶
什麼處境都躲不過我所料
麻木的過渡 太多了
情人沒間斷 而捱得孤單太少
大錯特錯都可將愛當感冒
病後轉眼又再醫好
頑強又豁達 橫渡旅途
所有道理亦已知道
大愛特愛早知可以要怎做
就是不要為了得到
長期像愛奴 再提防自保
一戀愛便愛得疲勞
全為經過做到 放棄擁有練到
成為了專家 怕情人亂抱
大錯特錯都可將愛當感冒
病後轉眼又再醫好
頑強又豁達 橫渡旅途
力氣 已一早虛耗
早知熱戀失戀可以要怎做
就是不要為了得到
長期像愛奴 再提防自保
一戀愛便愛得疲勞
全為經過做到 放棄擁有練到
成為了專家 更覺談情俗套
停頓一下或更好 不想戀得想吐
About This Song

The song "" (Love Fatigue) by delves deep into the complexities and emotional toll of romantic relationships. The central theme reflects a state of exhaustion that arises from the cyclical highs and lows of love. The lyrics express a poignant yearning for emotional stability while simultaneously confronting the harsh realities that accompany lovefeelings of heartache, the pain of separation, and the struggle to remain open to affection despite past wounds. The narrator's sentiment captures the paradox of loving deeply yet feeling weary, hinting at a profound internal conflict that many listeners can relate to.

The song conveys a narrative of disillusionment with love, as the protagonist grapples with the fleeting nature of romance and the seemingly endless cycle of getting attached only to face disappointment. The lyrics paint vivid imagery of emotional scars and the knowledge gained from experiencing love and loss repeatedly. There's a sense of resignation in the narrator's voice, as they highlight that even the most intense love can transform into a burdensome experience. The journey from naive idealism to a guarded skepticism about romantic connections serves as a powerful message about self-preservation in the face of heartbreak.

Musically, the song features a blend of pop and emotional balladry, allowing Wu to showcase her vocal range and emotional delivery. Notable elements include the use of metaphor and imagery that enhance the listening experience; phrases that compare love to a common ailment, such as a cold, aptly encapsulate the ups and downs of romantic endeavors. The repetition of certain phrases reinforces the song's cyclical theme of love, as does the structure of the lyrics, which evoke a sense of inevitability akin to that experienced in lovea wonderful struggle mixed with sorrow.

Culturally, "" resonates strongly within the context of contemporary romantic discourse in Chinese society where the pressures of relationships can weigh heavily on individuals. The candid exploration of emotional fatigue in love mirrors the experiences of many young people navigating the dating landscape today, making this song a significant expression of shared sentiments. This relatable theme, combined with its artistic expression, makes the song not only a personal anthem for love-weariness but also a broader commentary on the romantic challenges faced in modern relationships.