放過自己

By 陳柏宇

誰 誰人從沒了期
誰人勞役過你
兩眼已沒趣味 又全沒見地
如靈魂被隔離
而誰人代替你
改寫心裏那天地
使你別了你
拒絕再玩
你所謂愛情遊戲任由你
夾硬去改變我自己 遷就你
無了期 嘅競技
無錯 你勝利
但系同時建立起我哋愛情嘅墓碑
邊個將愛當系
一場戰鬥
互相去佔領
互相去佔有
愛情嘅變奏 竟然系顫抖
拖手到最後 換嚟嘅就只有詛咒
放我走當我輸到一敗塗地
就當我逃避 就當我唔再縱容你
我太過卑微
冇資格同你嬉戲
我記起要放過自己首先要放棄你
誰 誰人從沒了期
誰人勞役過你
兩眼已沒趣味 又全沒見地
如靈魂被隔離
而誰人代替你
改寫心裏那天地
使你別了你
什麼叫愛
是否應該
提醒哪可一哪可再
原則更改
軀殼打開
先知道靈魂已走開
你有冇 顧過我 感受
我已經 忍夠
如果真愛真系咁就
太過荒謬 到底
做獵人定兔仔
點解一段關係要分高低要計邊個蝕底
畀你贏曬一切
畀你改造
跟你喜好
做最討好你嘅倒模好冇
冇法再彌補
我哋嘅愛情到咗死路
我祈禱你揾到一個比我更好
誰 誰人從沒了期
誰人勞役過你
兩眼已沒趣味 又全沒見地
如靈魂被隔離
而誰人代替你
改寫心裏那天地
使你別了你
什麼叫愛
是否應該
提醒哪可一哪可再
原則更改
軀殼打開
先知道靈魂已走開
About This Song

The song "" ("Letting Myself Go"), performed by (Chen Baiyu), deeply explores themes of self-liberation and the complexities inherent in romantic relationships. The emotional core of the song revolves around the struggle of letting go of a toxic relationship where one partner feels trapped and underappreciated. Throughout the lyrics, there are vivid expressions of pain and disillusionment, highlighting the narrator's journey from submission to empowerment. As the protagonist realizes the toll that the relationship has taken on their identity and well-being, they begin to prioritize their own needs over the demands of their partner.

The primary message conveyed in the song is the necessity of self-respect and the understanding that love should not feel like a battlefield. The narrative speaks to the agony of feeling obligated to change oneself to please a partner, leading to a loss of individual identity. The protagonist reflects on their past sacrifices and the relentless nature of love that has morphed into a competition rather than a supportive partnership. Ultimately, the song encapsulates a pivotal moment of recognition where the narrator decides to reclaim their autonomy, suggesting that true love should foster personal growth rather than confinement.

Musically, "" features a blend of poignant melodies and carefully layered instrumentation that enhances the emotional weight of the lyrics. Chen Baiyu's vocal delivery is marked by a blend of vulnerability and strength, effectively conveying the internal conflict experienced by the narrator. Lyrically, the song employs metaphorical language and rhetorical questions that invite listeners to introspect about the nature of love and sacrifice. The repetition of certain phrases emphasizes the desire for agency and the painful realization of what has been lost.

Culturally, this song resonates with a growing appreciation for self-empowerment and mental well-being, especially in the context of modern relationships. In a society where expectations often pressure individuals to endure unfavorable dynamics for the sake of love, "" serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of valuing oneself. The song not only encourages listeners to reflect on their personal boundaries but also contributes to a broader dialogue about healthy relationships and personal autonomy.