用力一抱

By 梁漢文

剩下問候 問候太拘謹
卻怕兩臂 難承受體温
那似細個
過去那雙手雖細 攬得這麼貼近
現在越大 越害怕交心
成人如何 埋頭伏在我至親
彷彿小孩 脆弱到會抖震
讓你放心
應該要快樂便能快樂
沿途肉搏 怕再借你肩膊
當我無能為力 受了再多苦 也未敢訴
那樣沉重 無謂白費 你的安慰或鼓舞
我何嘗未想仿似舊日 墮進你的懷抱
你若還未明白 為何只聽到一切還好
試試用力一抱
寂寞二字 是沒法開口
你我兩個 為何漸漸會怕醜
這種關頭 抱實了已足夠
我為何吝嗇
張開兩臂便做到
巴不得每天 你白髮給我數
當我望你回望着我 看不出我在苦惱
卻又從未凝望着你 怎麼比往日蒼老
最後瞞着你所有憾事 大家互相問好
要是還未明白 為何大家親得那樣疏
再次用力一抱
About This Song

"" (A Strong Embrace) by offers a poignant exploration of intimacy, vulnerability, and the complexities of adult relationships. At its core, the song captures the emotional tug-of-war between the desire to connect deeply with loved ones and the fear of exposing oneself to potential hurt and rejection. The lyrics speak to a struggle that many face - wanting to embrace someone fully while holding back due to the shadows of past experiences and the pressures of adulthood. The repeated motif of physical closeness juxtaposed with emotional distance resonates with listeners who have navigated similar feelings in their relationships.

The narrative unfolds as the singer reflects on the changes that come with growing older, conveying how the innocence of childhood often contrasts sharply with the guardedness that adulthood brings. The artist unflinchingly addresses the theme of loneliness, suggesting that despite being in close proximity to those we care about, we can still feel estranged. This idea of disconnect is highlighted through the imagery of hesitance in expressing true feelings, illustrating a common emotional barrier that many face when trying to engage fully with their loved ones.

Musically, the song features soft melodies that support the weight of its heartfelt lyrics, using gentle instrumentation that evokes a sense of nostalgia. The lyrical technique incorporates rich metaphors and delicate imagery, painting a vivid picture of longing and hesitation. Lines evoke visual and tactile sensations, creating a relatable experience that resonates deeply with the audience. The use of repetition in phrases such as '' emphasizes the necessity of strong, heartfelt connections despite underlying fears.

Culturally, the song captures the essence of emotional expression in Mandarin pop music, where themes of love and relationship dynamics are prevalent. It reflects the changing norms surrounding intimacy in contemporary society, particularly in Asian cultures where emotional expression is often restrained. "" serves as a reminder of the power and importance of vulnerability - an appeal to embrace those we care for despite the complexities and challenges that come with emotional connections.