男人信什麼

By 衞蘭

就算以後見不到
沒法再後退一步
難道我脾性他不知道
誰對誰錯都好
沒有責任對他好
沒有顧慮懶得苦惱
懷念角力鬥嘴不枯躁
沒顧慮才苦惱
不會自己去求和 就算知錯
要垂頭受氣説不過
誰若先找到誰隨便講句什麼都可
欺騙大家有何難 我要好過
要情人沒法看穿我
其實我自問情緒難以捉摸
欺騙自己太為難 我信不過
有時連用意也講錯
人又愛又恨難霎時説清楚
難擔保我是我
講太多
就算再沒法一起
沒法濫用對不起
其實我願意吞聲忍氣
但怕被看不起
沒法叫伴侶歡喜
是哪個沒有品味
其實太害怕給他拋棄
才勉勵我爭氣
欺騙大家有何難 我要好過
想顯得我未怕一個
無謂太在意他可給我什麼
欺騙自己太為難 我信不過
彷彿得我未揭穿我
迎着愛人還可掩飾到什麼
男人想信什麼
如真心對待我
誰忍心識破我
About This Song

The song "" (translated as "What Do Men Believe?") by (Wei Lan) captures the emotional turmoil and complexities of romantic relationships, particularly from a woman's perspective. The lyrics delve into the struggles of love, trust, and self-deception. The artist poignantly expresses feelings of uncertainty and vulnerability that arise when one grapples with the conflicting emotions of devotion and fear of rejection, making the song relatable to anyone who has ever faced heartache or self-doubt in a relationship.

At its core, the song tells a story of a woman reflecting on her romantic experiences, understanding that relationships often involve a push and pull of emotions. She grapples with her own insecurities and the difficulty of being straightforward with her partner. The lyrics articulate a profound message about the importance of authenticity in love while simultaneously highlighting the internal conflict of wanting to protect oneself from potential heartbreak. This dichotomy creates a rich narrative that resonates deeply with listeners, as they may recognize their own hesitations and fears in the dynamics of love.

Musically, the song blends emotive melodies with a subtle, captivating instrumentation, allowing the poignant lyrics to take center stage. The choice of vocal delivery complements the song's themes, with Wei Lan's expressive vocals capturing the nuances of sorrow and introspection. Lyrically, the song employs various techniques such as vivid imagery, rhetorical questions, and metaphoric expressions that enhance the emotional weight of the narrative. The repeated motifs of deception and seeking validation resonate throughout the song, emphasizing the struggle for truth in both self-awareness and in romantic attachments.

Culturally, "" taps into the societal expectations around love and relationships, particularly in the context of contemporary Chinese culture, where there is often pressure to conform to certain ideals of romance. The song's exploration of honesty, vulnerability, and the intricacies of emotional expression speaks to a universal experience while also reflecting the unique challenges faced within the cultural framework of love. In doing so, Wei Lan not only offers an introspective look at personal relationships but also encourages listeners to confront their own perceptions of love and self-worth.