十個他不如你一個

By 衞蘭

事實上揹着良心告別你
我試過責備自己討厭你
從來並未受遺棄
但是我想 還是未及 永不捨棄
皆因不過初戀 稚嫩度猶如做戲
不可到尾 旁人也屢度説起
人人初戀得一次 太回味那時
人人自然自私 要耗盡才終止
以後無論再找十個他
不相似 甚或要 懷念到再來一次
人人失戀失一次 我還未算遲
其時未及認知 愛會在沉默裏終止
我也許失去自知 那快樂全部會停止
卻又未知 下一次
仍然極度在乎你
但是我想 回頭亦是 惹我生氣
初戀不過初戀 但現實誰講道理
卻仿似做戲 離巢了愛沒有死
人人初戀得一次 太回味那時
人人自然自私 要耗盡才終止
以後無論再找十個他
不相似 甚或要 懷念到再來一次
人人失戀失一次 我還未算遲
其時未及認知 愛會在沉默裏終止
我也許失去自知 那快樂全部會停止
卻又未知 下一次
最後 最後 對錯抉擇誰知
最後 分離 我都玩過一次
最後 最後 做錯了但我知
結合 分離 最多知有一次
About This Song

The song "" by (Wei Lan) delves deep into the bittersweet experience of first love, highlighting the emotional turbulence that accompanies both love and heartbreak. The lyrics express a profound sense of nostalgia and longing, suggesting that no matter how many relationships one may encounter in the future, none will compare to the unique bond of a first love. The emotional core of the song reverberates with themes of regret, cherished memories, and the inevitable acceptance of loss, creating a powerful resonance for anyone who has experienced similar feelings.

The narrative unfolds through a reflective lens, where the protagonist grapples with the pain of letting go of a significant relationship. While acknowledging that everyone goes through their first love, the lyrics touch upon the natural selfishness inherent in human naturewhere one tends to cling to past experiences despite the passage of time. This sense of longing is encapsulated in the repeated notion that searching for new loves cannot substitute the profound connection once felt. "" (I am not late yet) further emphasizes the determined yet somber realization that while past romances might fade, the memories linger on and shape future relationships.

Musically, the song integrates emotive melodies with poignant lyrics that employ metaphorical language and repetition to evoke a sense of yearning. The instrumentation complements the heartfelt vocal delivery, reinforcing the emotional weight carried in both the verses and the chorus. Notable lyrical techniques include the use of conversational phrases and relatable imagery, which ground the song's sentiments in reality while also inviting listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and loss.

Culturally, this song speaks to a broader societal understanding of romantic relationships in Chinese culture, where first loves are often idealized and remembered as significant milestones in ones life. It echoes the common narrative found in many Asian pop songs where emotional storytelling reigns supreme, and the universal theme of love and separation resonates across different cultures. Wei Lan's poignant exploration of these feelings provides not only a personal connection for many listeners but also invites a collective acknowledgment of the beauty and pain inherent in love.