可愛不可愛

By 方力申

是最最不可能 才這樣吸引
待你好只怪是我笨
盡全力難以抱得緊
若抱緊明知不會合襯
誰人叫我太貪心要你熱吻
盲目地與你説天説地
這叫做殘忍定悽美
明知後退我也可以避
偏偏又放縱到扮你知己
期望你太多 註定難過
只好怪寂寞令我闖禍
可換到幾次期待不需關懷都慶賀
捱下去結果 也是難過
只有我自問自答這苦心對或錯
天與地難以有人可拯救到我
路過幾多好人 誰也極吸引
但到底只會為你恨
沒緣份才會更多心
沒結果才想等你步近
旁人也替我操心替我怒憤
明明是個個也都漂亮
偏這樣沉溺喜歡你
寧願恨你到喪失趣味
偏偏又愛上你沒法心死
不理力量奉獻幾多
不顧後患尚有幾多
喜歡你逃避你你不必知道清楚
天再大唯有你能親手殺死我
About This Song

The song "" by delves deep into the complexity of love and desire, exploring the emotional contradictions that arise when one is infatuated yet aware of the futility behind such feelings. The main theme centers around the push and pull of romantic affection, where the protagonist grapples with intense feelings for someone who may not reciprocate in a meaningful way. This emotional core resonates with listeners who have experienced love filled with unfulfilled expectations and an overwhelming sense of longing.

In the lyrics, the story is narrated from a contemplative perspective, with the singer reflecting on his overzealous hopes and dreams about an idealized romance. He acknowledges his naivety and the harsh reality that despite his fervent feelings, he may be destined for heartache. The stark contrasts between yearning and despair are depicted through poignant phrases that describe the protagonist's internal conflicthis desires are tempered by the harsh understanding of his situation, embodying a classic tale of unrequited love.

Musically, the song features a melancholic melody that enhances the lyrical themes of love and longing. The use of vivid imagery in the lyrics, such as "" (holding tightly) and "" (hot kisses), evokes strong emotional responses, allowing listeners to conjure deep feelings of passion and frustration. The lyrical techniques employed, such as repetition and contradictory statementslike the mix of love and hateserve to heighten the emotional tension throughout the song, capturing the essence of a tumultuous relationship.

Culturally, the song reflects a broader sentiment experienced in many romantic tales, specifically within Chinese pop music where themes of love often intertwine with elements of longing, heartbreak, and introspection. The depth of emotions displayed in "" resonates universally, allowing listeners from various backgrounds to connect with the artist's portrayal of love's complexities, making it a relatable anthem for anyone who has loved deeply but lost just as profoundly.