習慣失戀

By 容祖兒

不拖手 或者都可堪稱熱戀
一拖手 比咳嗽更短
太快了 我未快樂過已失戀
想不起 被愛是如何温暖
想不通 未夠資格使你心軟
但也知道心會這麼酸
理所當然我的錯
令你忽然離開半路留下我
(令你忽然離開也是我錯麼)
為何這麼快看清楚
落得這結果
知我是個無法討好的人
相戀一刻只是我的僥倖
然而回頭誠實去自問
我可討厭到如此乞你憎
知我連眼淚也絕不感人
只知怎麼考驗你的操行
從前為何纏在你附近
你不寂寞便嫌我笨
(到底這個故事 有沒有發生)
難道我未夠好未懂得熱吻
足夠令你憐憫
勾不起你的興奮
不擔心 自尊心這麼受損
只擔心 我將我看穿
我怕我 以後太習慣了失戀
更加速發覺原本都不相襯
我未夠吸引 你未夠肯
何必受罪 心即使碎一碎
我仍能 繼續追
願那一刻共聚 懂得怎去相愛
愛人難 我肯學 定能愛下去
About This Song

"" ("Getting Used to Heartbreak") by (Joey Yung) delves into the complexities of modern relationships, highlighting the emotional turmoil and introspection following a breakup. The song's primary theme revolves around the feelings of loss, disappointment, and the chilling realization of becoming accustomed to heartbreak. The narrator reflects on their experiences of love and loss, expressing a sense of melancholy as they grapple with feelings of inadequacy and the desire for a connection that never fully materialized.

The lyrics form a poignant narrative where the speaker questions their self-worth and why the relationship faltered despite their yearning for closeness. This exploration of heartbreak is tackled with an authentic vulnerability, as the artist conveys not only their pain but also an acknowledgment of their part in the relationship's demise. The internal dialogue presented in the lyrics invites listeners to contemplate their own experiences of love and separation, making the song relatable on many levels.

Musically, the song blends emotive pop melodies with a contemporary arrangement, underscoring the emotional weight of the lyrics. The use of repetition in phrases like '' ("I'm not attractive enough") amplifies the narrator's insecurities, while the gentle yet powerful musical buildup allows the listener to feel the intensity of the emotions portrayed. Additionally, the lyrical techniques such as rhetorical questions add depth to the narrative, prompting the audience to reflect on the nature of their own relationships.

In a broader cultural context, this song resonates particularly with younger audiences who are navigating the complexities of love in an age of instant connectivity and fleeting relationships. "" captures the transient nature of love in contemporary society, where individuals often cycle through intense emotions, making it a significant addition to the pop landscape in Hong Kong and beyond. It speaks to the heart of anyone who has felt the pangs of loss and the bittersweet process of learning to love again, ultimately emphasizing the resilience needed to move forward.